Middle age is when your age starts to show around your middle. Bob Hope I knew I wasn’t alone in feeling inexplicably tired after doing things that used to feel easy — that vague sense that my body had become a slightly less cooperative version of itself. No sharp pains, no dramatic symptoms, but noticeable … Read more
Here’s a confession: I’ve spent years writing about self-improvement, and I’m not entirely sure it’s made me better at any of it. What it has done is make me very good at recognizing, with painful clarity, the exact moment I’m doing the wrong thing. After going back through some older posts recently, I noticed they … Read more
If you think Artificial Intelligence is about Simpsons memes, cat soap operas, or asking ChatGPT to roleplay as a drunk, think again. AI is here, NOW, and it’s not the sloppy “I’ll guess answers and give you some half-truths” tool. With recent code releases such as Anthropic’s Claude Opus 4.6 and OpenAI’s GPT-5.3-Codex, a true … Read more
Here’s a confession: I have six browser tabs open right now, a to-do list glaring at me, and a brain that’s simultaneously catastrophizing about what’s happening in my house downstairs and how AI is going to change our jobs and lives. If you’ve spent any time on this blog, you know I think a lot … Read more
I read about someone who, after returning from a hiatus at work, found themselves so paralyzed by the mountain of unread emails in their inbox that they did something radical: they deleted their entire Inbox. And replaced it with a single outgoing message that said something along the lines of, “If you were waiting for … Read more
Not knowing where or how to begin is the downfall of many creative pursuits. The reason so many creative projects don’t make it past the idea stage is what most writers colloquially refer to as the “blank page syndrome.” There are good reasons to dread the blank page. You have to make decisions on what … Read more
I have a minimal social media presence, plus I strictly enforce a hard cap on how much time I spend there. And yet, even I can feel the online pressure that comes with a New Year and the expectation that we should miraculously morph into entirely different people overnight. The TikToks and self-help gurus roll … Read more
Just before the holidays, I ordered a tablet for a work project. There was a seasonal promotion running at the time: buy the tablet, get a free wireless keyboard. In my multitasking, list-checking, end-of-year rush, I forgot to add the keyboard to my order. A couple of weeks later, after the tablet arrived, I went … Read more
For years, I assumed that feeling behind was a temporary condition. That once I planned better, managed my time more efficiently, or stayed more disciplined, life would finally feel under control. It hasn’t worked out that way. What I’ve come to see instead is that the problem isn’t effort. It’s expectation—about time, about progress, and … Read more
’Tis the season of lists. Beyond the usual Top Ten books, movies, fashion moments, and travel adventures of the year, I’ve seen more unusual roundups, such as the strangest news stories and the cringiest pop-culture moments. Here’s my not-so-sensational contribution to the world of lists: five insights gleaned from books and life I intend to … Read more
For a few years now, I’ve published a list of the ten most impactful books I read that year. It is one of my favorite posts to write each year. I love books like I love my child. Just like how any proud parent can’t stop talking about how great their kids are, I can’t … Read more
One of the things I catch myself saying far too often is some version of: “I will be xxx when yyy happens.” It shows up in harmless-looking lines like: I’ll feel better once I deliver that big presentation I’ll relax on Friday night, after this crazy work week ends I’ll start my quest for spirituality … Read more
My coworkers expect me to show up at 8:30 a.m. on Tuesday to answer questions on Zoom. Mortgage and credit card companies expect me to pay my bills on time. The elderly seniors who live with me expect me to have their meals ready on time every day. These are expectations borne out of social … Read more
Forced to replace our car during Covid, we ended up buying an overpriced Tesla. Yes, this was back in the early days, before the world’s first trillion-dollar payout man went full Bond villain. And yes, I bought the stickers earlier this year to avoid the public shaming of being seen in a Tesla. When I … Read more
I enjoy doling out free (often unsolicited) advice far more than receiving (or acting on) it. One suggestion I routinely toss around is to encourage people to volunteer at local running events, even if they have no interest in the sport of running. Aside from the good karma, spectating at endurance events, especially longer ones … Read more
My private integrity is a highly confidential matter. Don’t ask questions, and I won’t tell you any lies. Anonymous. We push our chairs back after we’ve dined at a restaurant, we roll our shopping cart back into the corral instead of abandoning it in the parking lot, and we hold the door open to let … Read more
“The road to hell is paved with good intentions.” I now understand the meaning of this old proverb. With good intentions, I sat down to write this very post, but only managed to have a staring contest with a blank screen. It ended in a tie, since neither of us blinked for a long time. … Read more
Quick question: are you a better-than-average driver? If you said yes, you’re in good company. Almost everyone does. In one of psychology’s classic studies, researcher Ola Svenson asked students in the U.S. and Sweden to rate their driving skills compared to others. The results? A whopping 93% of Americans and 69% of Swedes claimed they … Read more
One of the more useless skills I’ve recently developed is the ability to tell time without needing to look at a clock. Sure, in terms of utility, this ranks somewhere between being able to recite the first 23 decimals in Pi or knowing the entire lyrics to the Beatles song I am the Walrus. Still. … Read more
It was supposed to be a three-minute task. I log on to the website to cancel my landline service (a term that may only be familiar to people of a certain age). Of course, the “Cancel Service” menu option does not exist, so I initiate a chat session. Soon, I’m told, “You need to call … Read more