When he was 16, Einstein performed a thought experiment. He wondered if he could outrun a beam of light. Granted, Einstein’s visualizations were lofty, unlike the fascinations of most 16-year-olds I know—Nintendo Switch lite, Hollywood makeup mirror, DIY mochi kits. Einstein’s single thought experiment changed the course of human history in the 20th century. We … Read more

When a 3-year-old falls down and expects her already multitasking mother to come running to her, it’s adorable. A 30-year-old (adult-child) who expects people to go to her rescue every time she has a bad day isn’t a cute look. It is a sign of self-entitlement. A rapidly progressing ailment in our society. The cure … Read more

Ever have the hollow feeling of getting to bedtime and not having much to show for your day? We all go through times when it’s easy to get lost in the rigmarole of life. One day turns into another and another and another, and before you know it, you hit another milestone birthday and wonder … Read more

If you see a celebrity on a magazine cover flaunting six-pack abs, what thought runs through your head? That you need to go on a diet/exercise regimen to emulate those surfboard abs? Or, do you roll your eyes and attribute the celebrity’s abs to the army of personal trainers and chefs at her disposal, not … Read more

Have you insisted that you left the keys on the table only to find them later in your coat pocket? Or, had trouble recalling the name of the movie but can quote dialogue from the movie verbatim? Or, argue with your spouse about stuff you heard on the radio last week while you both swear … Read more

City residents convened a town hall meeting in a small town to discuss repair options for a statue in the city center. The figurine was already considered an eyesore. Now, with its broken arm, it bordered on grotesque. A fierce debate ensued between the residents on whether to keep or remove the sculpture. Ultimately the … Read more

The reason could be any: a layoff, a chance to climb the corporate ladder, a new entrepreneurial venture, a calling to make the world a better place, or simply to avoid never-ending boredom at your current job. There will come a time in almost everyone’s life, where it becomes essential to release a V 2.0 … Read more

After a catastrophe occurs, you might hear someone say, “I knew all along this was going to happen.” When you hear those words, you don’t need to get all worked up and let go of your otherwise calm, unflappable demeanor! Instead, you only have to say to the one-who-knew-all-along, “No, you didn’t. You are exhibiting … Read more

I have transformed in many ways from how I was younger. One thing that hasn’t really changed much over the years, though, is my patience. Or rather, lack of it. Not that I’m impatient or anything. I just don’t like the waiting part. That said, I’m making a renewed effort now to tackle this persistent … Read more

Adam Grant called “languishing” the emotion of the pandemic year. I’m not surprised. If I had a gauge or a device that measured my motivation, it would probably fluctuate between zero and none. We all get a case of the blahs every so often. This article is about what we can do to recover from … Read more

Like many, I used to think of myself as a fairly rational person who made most decisions based on objective facts. I now realize that assumption is just one more example of the kinds of stories we tell ourselves. I am an old man and have known a great many troubles, but most of them … Read more

With our everyone-is-special, participation-trophy culture and the fact that, in 2013, “selfie” was named word of the year, the time is ripe for a good dose of narcissism-removing reality check. Understanding the earth revolves around the sun and not around us is a lesson best learned sooner rather than later. Pencil-sharpener Captain One day, years … Read more

In a Scottish poem, ‘To a Mouse,’ Robert Burns wrote, “The best-laid schemes o’ Mice an’ Men gang aft agley.” Which translates to “The best-laid schemes of mice and men often go awry.” When things don’t go to plan, we can either hope the plan somehow will magically work itself out or figure out ways … Read more

In 1982, HG Brown published a book titled Having It All: Love, Success, Sex, Money…even if you’re starting with nothing. The phrase “having it all” has since evolved to represent whether women can have both—glowing family life and an equally stellar career, a topic of intense debate worldwide. Twelve Superwomen An editorial published in the … Read more

Almost every knowledge discipline relies on us having a fundamental grasp of logical reasoning; however, it’s not a subject we’re taught in school. In 1995, NY Times published a story with the headline “An Argument, A Shooting, A Fatal Crash of a Plane.” The headline succinctly described what had taken place. An ex-pilot who worked … Read more

If you can’t decide whether the new pair of shoes you’re trying on in the store look good on you and have to turn to Instagram to confirm with your followers, then you’re clearly a victim to the curse of social validation. Social proof has always existed, but when our self-esteem ebbs and flows based … Read more

It’s no secret I’m a self-help junkie. So, when I heard phrases such as “find your calling” or “do what you love,” I couldn’t help but take them seriously. After years of trial and error, I have reached one simple conclusion. A lot of advice comes from a place of privilege and carries the stench … Read more

Having two or more of everything, “just in case”, does not signify great planning. It points to poor decision-making. Simplify your life. It’s easy to complicate things but genius is in keeping it simple and stupid. Diamonds and other baubles On Nov 1, 1972, the New York Times published an article that began with this … Read more